Grasping this Concept Will Massively Impact Your Life. The most important part; “If you stop looking to get things from life and realize that your best ever experiences have just been the total presence of the moment, all negativity and doubt just drifts away. This doesn’t mean you don’t try for things or make changes in your life but that you genuinely don’t care whether someone likes you or what is going to come out of a situation.You just enjoy the fact that there is someone and a situation.”